You are the competitive type

In a narcissist’s worldview, there are winners and losers, says Brugo, and the narcissist needs to win in virtually every domain—on the tennis court, at the office, heck, even in the community garden. “They have to make themselves out to be superior to somebody else,” he explains, in a relentless quest to prove their dominance. The opponent could be a stranger or someone you love. That compulsive drive to come out on top (no matter who ends up on bottom) makes it difficult to celebrate other people’s successes, like, say, your college pal’s beautiful new house—because in that moment, someone else is the “winner.”

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